For many Father’s Day can bring up old or fresh energies of abandonment within oneself. The dynamics of abandonment within a ‘father relationship’ can be broad and expansive. A ‘father role’ may have abandoned you at a very young age, or later in life. A father role may have shown love in his own way~ consistent, non consistent, delightful or painful. What we desire to understand is the dynamics of our time together and our understanding of why we BOTH choose each other. A father can be extremely influential, for he sets up the foundation of much of your ‘programming’…which was given to him by his own programming (uprearing). So ask yourself~what programs does your father hold? What part of his programming did you desire to learn from? What are your own expectation of male roles in your life?
In Love’s Enfoldment~ Amy Baker