We do not have to be ‘friends’, and I do not have to ‘like’ you. Quite simply put: our energies may not be in alignment with one another. We may not jive or have the same goals or outlook on life. Isn’t this beautiful?
Do not get me wrong. I am aware that words are energy, and what comes out of your mouth, or your movement around me may not be what your Heart’s vibration holds~ or your true energetic ‘structure’ and ‘design’. What I am feeling (and looking at) is how you extend your energy NOW in this moment (and other NOW moments) of time. Not all are to be in alignment with me in this moment, and I honor this diversity. YOU are beautiful in your own way..as am I.
“Likeness” is being in alignment with one another…if even for a moment. We are being taught to ALWAYS find the likeness in others…and if we cannot????… guilt sets in, along with frustration and lack of BEing Love. To add to this confusion is the mindset (taught) that the other person is mirroring something devoid within you, that there’s something of the ‘same’ inside you that needs to be ‘fixed’. Do not beat yourself up. When you are triggered ask yourself what this person is trying to show you. It may be as simple as “I know who I am, and this is not ok with me.” It may be for you to stand within yourself solidly without conforming to another. It may even be to separate and create sacred space. Whatever the case~ we were not created in this form to be like ALL THE OTHERS. So it is wise to appreciate these differences and to know who you ‘ARE’ so you can simply say: “We just don’t resonate, and this is ok.”
I ‘SEE’ the real you. I know who it is you ‘ARE’. You are indeed an aspect of perfection as am I. I do Love you in an eternal sense~ the knowing of this perfection holds you forever within my heart…however; I do not have to ‘like’ you. Why should I? If we do not ‘serve’ one another’s growth~ then no exertion of energies will be made on my part…nor’ should it be made on yours. It is what it is, and each relationship is a ‘tool’ to get to know MYSELF. It all is about myself, for is all starts with ‘I’.
Do not train yourself to have to ‘do’ anything~ including liking a person who does not feed your own soul. Love them for who they ‘ARE’~ yet do not spend your energetic reserves trying to figure out the ‘why’ you do not mesh, or how you can…. It just simply is not to ‘BE’.
YOU are to ‘BE’ free~ and with that comes freedom to discern who you share your reserves with.
In Love’s enfoldment~ Amy B.